The Most Important In Your Life

What is the most important thing in your life?

I am really interested because I asked a lot of my friends at school and office, and I thought they would all say GOD but many said money, girls/boys, and having a stable future.

What really is most important to you when you look deep?

Mine: God...at first I was just to worried about money and having a happy family, maybe married to handsome, rich & kind hubby,ho~ho~ho~ (^.^)

but thats not the most important thing. I realized I can still be successful but lead a good life. It is a lot more relaxing and is going to be wonderful...

Emm... How about you??? (@.@)

++Dwa Personality++

Di zaman yang serba moden ini, terdapat ramai orang yang menggunakan 2 nama secara tidak sedar. Sesuatu yang lahir secara semulajadi. A same person wif different identity. Dwa personality. Semuanya sama, of courselah orang yang sama, mesti fizikal yang sama. Tapi mereka mempunyai cara pemikiran, pembawakan diri dan gaya yang berbeda.

Kadang-kadang kita tak sedar sesuatu perubahan dalam diri kita. Cara berbual kita dan pemikiran kita yang secara separa sedar berubah sama sekali. Sehinggalah ada yang memberitahu anda bahawa anda sama sekali lain dari hari yang lain. Ada kebaikannya dan ada keburukannya. Tetapi secara normal dan mengikut norma-norma kehidupan ia sama sekali "insane". Dimana lebih jelas pakar psikitri mengatakan mereka mengalami gangguan mental. Ia mungkin disebabkan gangguan makhluk halus, ho~ho~ho~ (kebarangkaliannya tidak mustahil sama sekali), sesuatu peristiwa yang berlaku pada masa lampau yang memberi impak atau kesan yang mendalam pada individu, tekanan perasaan yang melampau.

Bagaimana ini semua terjadi? Bagaimana anda boleh mengesan semua ini terjadi? Bagaimana anda dapat menolong seseorang yang menghadapi "multiple personality disorder"?

Hmm...

~+6 August 2008+~

Today i feel so release after i know why my collegue had been fired by Dr Goh Pik Pin, our head of unit CRC Selayang. I thought bcoz of cut our budget, i'm so worried if i be terminated too, but seem my worries fly away now, bcoz it actually bcos of my collegue behaviour. She pick up a phone and talk during work time, and been late coming to work. And that be reason why she been fired.

From now on, i need to be productive, work hard and focus in my work and there will be no excuse to fired me... Ho... ho... ho...
Even they are promised to me that i will work until next year, but we do not know what will happen tommorrow, so i need to be careful and watched my back... Ho... ho... ho...
(^__^)

>>CiNtA iTu BuTA<<

Seorang lelaki buta memasuki sebuah restoran. Amin, pemilik restoran itujuga berperanan sebagai pelayan mendatanginya dan menghulurkan menu.

“Saya orang buta dan saya tak boleh membaca menu.Tolong bawakan sudu kotor yang telah dipakai oleh pengunjung sebelumnya dan saya akan menciumnya. Dari situ nanti saya tahu masakan apa yang enak untuk dipesan,” kata lelaki buta tersebut.

Amin mengumpulkan beberapa sudu bekas dipakai yang ada dan memberikannya kepada lelaki tersebut. Ia mencium sudu itu dan akhirnya berkata, “Saya pesan ikan pais dan sayur masak asam bang”…………

Dengan agak terperanjat Amin mencatat pesanan lelaki buta itu. Menu itu memang menjadi kegemaran para pengunjung restoran tersebut.

Beberapa hari kemudian lelaki buta tersebut datang lagi. Sekali lagi dia minta sudu bekas dipakai untuk dicium, tetapi bukan yang habis dipakai utk makan ikan pais dan sayur masak asam. Hanya ada satu sudu yang habis dipakai untuk makanmenu lainnya.

Amin memberikannyakepada lelaki buta tersebut yang kemudian mencium sudu itu dan berkata,“Bau sudu yang ini sedap juga, sepertihabis diguna untuk makan ayam bakar dengan sayur ulam dan sambalbelacan.” Amin mengiyakan dan si lelaki buta memesan makanan tersebut.

Lelaki buta itu untuk ketiga kalinya datang semula beberapa hari kemudian.Dia datang lebih awal ketika belum ada satu pun pengunjung yang datang sehingga tidak ada sudu bekas diguna yangboleh diberikan untuk dihidu.

Entah dari mana datangnya, tiba-tiba sifat nakal bodoh Amin muncul. Dia menghampiri isterinya yang berperanan sebagai tukang masak di dapur. Diberikannya satu sudu dan berkata, “Yati,kamu usapkan sudu ini diketiak kamu”
“Apa-apa lah abang ni ?” tanya Yati tak faham.
“Sudahlah ikut je lahhhh, untuk kemajuan restoran kita,” kata Amin setengahmemaksa. Yati menurut, mengusapkan sudu tersebut di “ketiak! nya” dan menyerahkan kembali kepada Amin.

Dibawanya sudu tersebut ke lelaki buta yang duduk menunggu. Lelaki buta itupun menghidu sudu itu, dengan mengenyitkan keningnya, lelaki butatersebut berkata,

“Aku tidak menyangka makwe lamaku Yati bekerja disini……. boleh saya jumpa dia”

Amin: ????????????????.(bengang)

Sesungguhnya Cinta itu Butaaaaaa…………………

>>AYAT LEPAS KAHWIN<<

Sebelum Tido:

6 minggu: Selamat tido Sayaaang, mimpi indah-2 ya, mmmuach.
6 bulan: Tolong matikan lampu tu, silau aah.
6 tahun: Sana sikit lah... Tido kalau tak mengepit tak bole ker???!

Pakai Toilet:

6 minggu: Tak apa, U masuk ler dulu, I tak kisaaahhhh
6 bulan: Masih lama lagi ke nih?
6 tahun: Brug! brug! brug! (suara pintu digegar), kalau nak bertapa pilah gunung ledang sana!!!

Balas SMS:

6 minggu: Iye Sayang, jap lagi I sampai rumah. Sayang, I belikan murtabak favourite U ye Sayang..
6 bulan: Trafik jam aah
6 tahun: K..

Dating process:

6 minggu: I love U, I love U, I love U.
6 bulan: Of course I love U.
6 tahun: Iyalah!! kalau I tak cintakan U, buat apa I nikah dengan U???

Pulang Kerje:

6 minggu: Sayaaang, I dah balik nih...
6 bulan : I'm BACK!!
6 tahun: Masak apa hari ini??

Hadiah (ulang tahun):

6 minggu: Sayang, I harap U suka cincin yang I beli untuk U ni
6 bulan: I beli lukisan, nampak sesuai dengan suasana ruang tengah
6 tahun: Nih duit, U beli sendirilah apa yg U nak..

Telefon:

6 minggu: Baby, ada yang ingin berbual ngan U di telefon nih
6 bulan: Eh... Your call...
6 tahun: WOOIII TELFON BUNYI TUUUHHH.... ANGKAT AAAAAHHH!!!

Masakan:

6 minggu: Wah, tak sangka I, pandai U masak.Rasa pun sedappp...!!!
6 bulan: Kita makan apa malam ini??
6 tahun: HAH!! LAUK INI LAGI?

Memaafkan:

6 minggu: Sudahlah, tak apa, dah pecah pun, nanti kita beli lagi yang lain,eh
6 bulan: Hati-hati, nanti jatuh tuh.
6 tahun: Orang dah bilang berkali-2 pon tak paham!!

Baju baru:

6 minggu: Aduh sayang, U seperti bidadari dengan pakaian itu
6 bulan: Lah... Beli baju baru lagi?
6 tahun: DAH BERAPA RIBU HABIS BELI BAJU TU???

Merancangkan Holiday:

6 minggu: Macam mana kalau kita jalan-jalan ke Amerika atau ke tempat yg U nak honey?
6 bulan: Kita ke Bukit Bintang aje ler... Senang sikit tak perlu naik flight...
6 tahun: JALAN-JALAN??? DUDUK RUMAH AJE TAK BOLEH KE? BUANG DUIT JE!

TV:

6 minggu: Baby, kita nak tengok cite apa malam ini?
6 bulan : Sekejap eh, citer bagus ah.
6 tahun: JANGAN TUKAR-2 BOLE TAK..

+MuLtiPLe PeRsONaLity DisOrders+

Definition

Dissociation is a mental process in which there is a lack of connection in thoughts, memories, feelings, actions or identity. While dissociating, certain information is not associated with other information as it normally would be. Some believe that dissociation exists on a continuum ranging from daydreaming to Dissociative Identity Disorder at the other. However there is great overlap between the different dissociative disorders (DD), including DID.

DID was previously called multiple personal disorder but in 1994 the name was changed to reflect the changes in understanding of the disorder. It involves a disturbance in identity whereby two or more separate personalities or identities, known as alters, control an individual's behavior. “Personality” here is defined as “enduring patterns of perceiving, relating to, and thinking about the environment and oneself” (American Psychiatric Association, 1994, p. 270).

When under the control of one alter, they may exhibit different behaviors, mannerisms, personalities, gender orientation, and physical properties (such as handedness, allergies and eyesight) and might not remember what transpired when another personality was in control. They may have as many as 100 alters or as few as two, though the average is 10 distinct ones, and they are stable over time. It is sometimes known as “disaggregate self state” because it is dissociated parts of the mind influencing behavior in DID patients.

Personalities may be aware of each other to some degree though only one will be in control at a given time; transitions are typically sudden and precipitated by stress (Morrison, 1995). Usually personalities are aware of loss of time when another personality is interacting with the environment. (Morrison, 1995).

Symptoms

~Multiple personalities, on average 10 though there can be as few as two and as many as 100
~Exhibits different personalities, behavior and even physical characteristics
~Episodes of amnesia or time loss (i.e.: don't remember people, places, etc.)
~Often they are depressed or suicidal
~Self-mutilation is common
~1/3 of patients experience visual or auditory hallucinations
~The average age for the development of alters is 5.9 years

Depressive symptoms

~An inability to focus in school (in childhood)
~Conduct problems (in childhood)

To be clinically diagnosed with DID, the following symptoms must be identified:

~The presence of at least two distinct personalities with their own relatively enduring pattern of sensing, thinking about, and relating to self and environment
At least two of these personalities assume control of behavior repeatedly
Extensive inability to recall major personal information cannot be attributed to common forgetfulness

This behavior is not caused directly by substance abuse or a general medical condition

· Multiple Personality Disorder (cont.)

· The precise cause is not known though DID is highly correlated with physical or sexual abuse in children, and many use dissociation as a defense. They seek to slip into a different state of mind where they are not being abused, and the abuse is occurring to someone else. Other evidence has linked DID with a history of brain injury and epilepsy. Onset is usually during childhood and most patients are female. DID may run in families; however, the genetic transmission question is unresolved (Morrison, 1995).

· Treatment

· Treatment is mainly psychotherapy with hypnosis. The goal is to deconstruct the different personalities and unite them into one. The therapist attempts to make contact with as many alters as possible and tries to understand their roles and functions in the person's life. The therapist seeks to make a connection with personalities that especially display violent or self-destructive tendencies. Another goal of the therapist is to set up a communication among the personalities to retrieve traumatic memories from the past. Generally treatment is as an outpatient, though inpatient treatment may be used to achieve a specific goal. Behavior analysis has not been demonstrated to be effective.

OIL INCREASING!!!

This is what will happen in the future if the fuel price keeps on increasing: